Post #1
Okay, so why Trust Me!?
First, because I'm a woman, wife and mother. And I think we really are one of the most valuable elements of our planet.
I do have a problem you should know about: no topic of our nature as human beings is off the table for me. In my personal life I'm pretty square: maybe traditional and conformist, conventional. But in my heart I question everything--our values, our morals, our politics, our religions, our sexuality, our dedication to monotheism and monogamy, even if at the end of the day, Iwill opt to stay as a monotheist and monogamist, and pretty "normal" as you.
Another of my issues, is that I ask a lot of questions. Some pretty evident, and mostly unnecessary, but others hopefully not that stupid.
Okay, what else? I love to do things fast and as efficiently as possible, in my life at home and as a worker of the world.
No, I don't have a lot of friends. My few true friends are my soul mates and I tend to talk about everything under the sun with them. I love sitting at a table and listening to people talk about themselves, which tells you I am a good listener.
Through the years I've come to accept that you have the friends you deserve. In my five decades I've lost people I've loved dearly and had to accept that I did not deserve them, or maybe, they were not worthy of my love. So I lick my wounds and try in my pain to move on.
Something else. I'm one of those weirdos that thinks any silent pause is my fault, and therefore I somehow think I'm responsible to keep people at ease and talking, so there I go and ask more stuff, and sometimes this makes others feel uncomfortable if, say I ask about someone's sexual orientation, becaue in my book, there is nothing wrong with this question, it's just another aspect of our humanity.
Oh-oh. I apologize if I already said more than I should have.
Let us welcome silence, but I'm trustworthy, so trust me!
Margarita